Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Telling the family.... whenis the right time?

Well hunnie i know what you mean about telling your mum because i know how it feels 2 be pregnant and want 2 tell your mum because you are close and like you said for the support. Im sorry for your losses, when i found out i was pregnant my partner told his sister and brother and i told my mum sister and dad also cousin and auntie then i miscarried at 10 weeks. Its horrible. I think if i was pregnant again i wouldn't tell anyone and would wait till 12 week because everyone was devastated. I think i'd be like you and want 2 tell my mum though. But i know how your husband feels because sometimes its harder in case you loose the baby and other people know because they don't act normal sort of thing with you they act a bit sensitive and your husband probably would just want them to be normal. So if i was you i'd just do what your husband says if you really feel the need to tell your mum just tell her but explain to her about your husband didn't want her to know because of the upset etc in case it happens again and ask her 2 keep it quiet. That way you will have support from your mum. But it depends how you feel in that way about not telling your husband your mum knows which could be worse if he found out. I wish you all the best + good luck xx

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